My husband has had 3 affairs now. I want to leave. I am not in a great financial position to leave but I want to move out with the kids and I want my husband to pay for a rental for us while I look for work. Should I do this or wait until I have work? We are incomparable, he has been having affairs and will continue to, we have been together mainly for the kids. I am uncertain what to do but I do know that the marriage is over.
I am here to help you with whatever decision you make, but this is your decision.
You get decide how you proceed from here.
What I want for you is to manage your thinking so that you feel strong and confident in your decision and future. You get to decide what you want to do.
How do you want to think right now?
How do you want to feel right now?
Take action from there.
Whatever decision you make – like you reason for making it (its not for anyone else to make and for anyone else to judge your reasons, only you have to like the reason).
Whatever decision you make – you can make this decision and go through this journey strong, confident, calm and proud – keep your thinking clean and focused on what you do have control over.