My husband has had 3 affairs now. I want to leave. I am not in a great financial position to leave but I want to move out with the kids and I want my husband to pay for a rental for us while I look for work. Should I do this or wait until I have work? We are incomparable, he has been having affairs and will continue to, we have been together mainly for the kids. I am uncertain what to do but I do know that the marriage is over.