My husband told me on Sunday that he has spoken to lawyers and wants a divorce. We have 3 children and I am a stay at home mum. I knew this was coming, we have been disconnected for many years, but I am terrified about what is to come and how this may impact on the kids. I feel sad it is coming to an end but more than anything terrified – Where will I live? How will I support myself? What will I do? I dont know who I am outside of being a mum and wife. I haven’t worked for 7 years, I let go of my accreditation as a pharmacist and don’t want to return to pharmacy…where do I even begin? How can I be the school drop off / pick up mum, get a job, find a house, manage a divorce, survive this??