I have discovered this month that I over eat (I am not overweight but I snack a lot in the evening) is to avoid having to go to bed with my husband.
I stay up and snack until I feel bloated so I can tell him I feel uncomfortable having sex because my stomach is so full.
Is this normal??
It’s not every night, 4-5 out of 7.
My husband loves to be intimate, not always sex, but he likes to also cuddle, touch me, hold my stomach as he sleeps.
I hate being touched all the time, this came about after having the kids, I need space.
The snacking is a way to avoid the conversation.
How do I have the conversation without hurting his feelings?
Do I need to have the conversation?
Still snacking…right now as I type this. Gah!