HI LAURA
MY QUESTION RELATES TO KNOWING WHEN ITS TIME TO LEAVE. FOR ME ITS MY MARRAIAGE. I AM NOT SO MUCH UNHAPPY BUT DISSATISFIED WITH MY RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE BEEN FOR SOME TIME. I KNOW I CANT CHANGE MY HUSBAND, THAT HE IS WHO HE IS, THAT I CAN CHOOSE TO LOVE HIM. I SUPPOSE I DO LOVE HIM, I JUST DONT WANT TO BE MARRIED TO HIM, I DONT WANT TO GROW OLD WITH HIM. I DONT HAVE THIS IDEA THAT I WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER, SOMEONE WHO WILL ‘MAKE ME HAPPY’ THAT MANY OF MY FRIENDS WHO HAVE DIVORCED REFER TO. I JUST KNOW THAT THE RIGHT THING FOR ME IS TO LEAVE. I FEEL I HAVE DONE ALL THE WORK, I FEEL I AM READY AM I READY?
I think you know the answer to that question my friend.
It is a big one to answer but it is also one you must own.
You can stay, you can leave, you get to choose. Just like your reason for your decision and take one step out of the cave door.
You have got this.
I am right here loving you.
I am certain you know exactly what is right for you, right now.
You are loved, you are supported, you are completely capable of making this decision.
xxx